能不能帮我翻译下这两段句子

But isn't it dishonest to give the appearance of friendly self-comfidence when we don't actually feel that way? Perhaps,but according to Dr.Zunin,"total honesty" is not always good for social relationships,sepecially during the first few minutes of contact. There is a time for ev-erything, and a certain amount of play-acting may be best for the first minutes of contact with a stranger. That is not the time to complain about one's health or to mention faults one finds in other people.lt is not the time to tell the whole teuth about one's opinions and impressions.

Much of what has heen said about strangers also applies to relationships with family members and friends.For a husband and wife or a parent and child,problems often arise during their first four minutes together after they have been apart.DR.zunin suggests that these first few minutes together be treated with care.if there are unpleasant matters to be dis-cussed,they should be dealt with later.

当我们实际上不感觉那个方式时，但不不诚实的给友好的自已comfidence出现的它是否是？ 或许，但根据Dr.Zunin， “总诚实”为社会关系总不是好， sepecially在最初的少数分钟联络期间。 有时候为一切，并且一定数量表演也许是最佳在第一纪录联络与陌生人。 那不是时候抱怨一.的健康或提及缺点你在其他people.lt发现不是时候告诉整体teuth关于一.的观点和印象。 什么有heen说关于陌生人也适用于与家庭成员和朋友的关系。为丈夫和妻子或者父母和孩子，问题一起经常出现在他们的前四分钟期间，在他们是apart.DR.zunin建议之后这些最初的少数分钟一起对待与那里care.if是将被谈论的令人不快的事态，他们应该涉及以后。