It’s not easy being a teenager（13至19岁青少年）—nor is it easy being the parent of a teenager. Y

It’s not easy being a teenager（13至19岁青少年）—nor is it easy being the parent of a teenager. You can make your child feel angry, hurt, or misunderstood by what you say without realizing it yourself. It is important to give your child the space he needs to grow while gently letting him know that you you’ll still be there for him when he needs you.
Expect a lot from your child, just not everything.Except for health and safety problems, such as drug use or careless driving; consider everything else open to discussion. If your child is unwilling to discuss something, don’t insist he tell you what’s on his mind. The more you insist, the more likely that he’ll clarn up. Instead , let him attempt to solve（解决）things by himself. At the same time, remind him that you’re always there for him should he seek advice or help. Show respect for your teenager’s privacy （隐私）. Never read him his mail or listen in on personal conversions.
Teach your teenager that the family phone is for the whole family. If your child talks on the family’s telephone for too long, tell him he can talk for15 minutes, but then he must stay off the phone for at least an equal period of time. This not only frees up the line so that other family members can make and receive calls, but teaches your teenager moderation（节制）. Or if you are open to the idea, allow your teenager his own phone that he pays for with his own pocket money or a part –time job
【小题1】The main purpose of the text is to tell parents .A．how to get along with a teenagerB．how to respect a teenagerC．how to understand a teenagerD．how to help a teenager grow up【小题2】What does the phrase “clam up” in Paragraph 2 probably mean?A．become excitedB．show respectC．refuse to talkD．seek help【小题3】The last paragraph is about how to teach a teenager .A．to use the phone in a sensible wayB．to pay for his own telephoneC．to share the phone quicklyD．to answer the phone quickly【小题4】What should parents do in raising a teenager according to the text?A．Nor allow him to learn driving or take drugsB．Give him advice only when necessaryC．Let him have his own telephoneD．Not talk about personal things with himD

(答案→)D
解析：
【小题1】主题大意题。整篇文章谈论父母亲在孩子成长过程中如何帮助孩子。【小题2】词义理解题。由句意可知，你越是坚持，孩子们也就越产生逆反心理，从而抵触与你交流。故应选C。【小题3】段落大意题。如何使用家庭电话。【小题4】概括归纳题。在孩子成长过程中，让他尝试解决一些问题。家长不应将自己的思想强加于孩子，而是必要时给他一些建议。

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