英语作文我的爱情婚姻观

英语作文我的爱情婚姻观

My opinion on Campus Love

　　Campus love isn't a newly-born phenomenon. Some people are strongly against it while some others think it's natural. I don't advocate it. The reasons are as follows. First of all, undergraduates are neither fully psychologically mature nor able to assume the responsibility, especially freshmen and sophomores. Second, they may indulge in it, thus dilapidate their study, which isn't rare. Third, some just take advantage of it to kill time, avoid boredom with much time at their own disposals, have someone keep company, etc. What's more, some change dating "partners" frequently, holding a paradox opinion that they could show off their charm or accumulate experience, but more often than not, they would leave a bad impression, such as lacking the sense of responsibility, on others, especially their former sweethearts. Last, the proportion of successful couples is too low. The overwhelming majority reach the same end-parting just before graduation, forced by reality, etc.

　　So, look before you leap, discard campus love and make a wiser decision after graduation.

不同的男人有不同的想法： 爱情和婚姻到底是什么？我认为爱情是恋爱中的男女之间产生的爱和感情，其中彼此一见钟情的爱情是最牢固的爱情。而婚姻是男女之间因为异性相吸而结合在一起的共同生活，包括共同的夫妻性生活和日常生活。 根据有无爱情，可以将婚姻分为两种类型： 第一种：有爱情的婚姻 产生了爱情的男女之间的婚姻，这种婚姻根据双方是否都有爱和感情又可以分为以下两类： 第一类：结婚的男女之间彼此都对对方有爱和感情，这类婚姻如果性爱和谐就能美满长久，在总体的婚姻中估计占10%左右； 第二类：婚姻中的男女只有一方对另一方有爱和感情，如果另一方对他（她）有好感且性爱和谐，婚姻可能会美满长久，否则，可能就是痛苦。 第二种：没有爱情的婚姻 男女之间因为外在的因素而结婚，彼此之间并没有爱情或者只是不讨厌对方。他们可能因为财产、地位而结婚，也可能因为结婚而结婚，这种婚姻的稳定性相对比较差。 性爱与婚姻的关系： 结婚双方无论有无爱情，和谐的性爱都是不可缺少的，否则婚姻就不能长久！有人说感情是婚姻的基础，其实不然，性爱和谐才是婚姻的基础，是婚姻和谐的润滑剂！ 有和谐性爱的婚姻，即使刚开始没有爱情，也可能会日久生情，婚姻能维持一生；而没有和谐性爱的婚姻，即使有爱和感情，也维持不了多久。 对于已婚之人，要保持婚姻长青，关键要做到以下几点： 1、忠诚对方，绝不红杏出墙！ 2、生活上要顺其自然，不要强求； 3、开朗乐观，保持身心健康； 4、理解信任对方，设身处地，多为对方着想； 5、同甘共苦，相亲相爱； 6、处理好与双方父母家庭的关系。