I’m of two minds about it.这里be of可以用have替代吗？

Harry，you didn't turn it down because of me...这句话语序很奇怪，你因为我没有拒绝，但书上翻译是 你不是为了我而拒绝的吧。要怎么理解？
Get my act together.和Get it all figured out.为什么第一句act没有用过去分词而figured用了过去分词？
And down will come baby, cradle and all.这句话中down是什么意思，可以做主语？
that's what's got you thinking,isn't it?这句话结构看不懂？
in在表时间时，到底是在...以内还是在...以后？
You've got yourself to think about，too.这里有完成时态吗？
That's the way I look at it.这句话什么结构什么意思？
My career as a fashion designer and my career as a mother.这里as a...是做同位语还是后置定语？
I never really thought about being a mother as a career.I guess you do have two career opportunities and a decision to make.as a career在句中做什么成分？to make为什么不是to be made，决定不是应该被做出吗?
I'm all mixed up.这里的all是修饰谁的？

1.I’m of two minds about it.这里be of不可以用have替代。因为意思有别。
of two minds，是美国英语。犹豫不决，拿不定主意（亦可使用in two minds）
2Harry，you didn't turn it down because of me...这句话否定的是状语
类似的例子 i can't speak english well.

3.Get my act together.和Get it all figured out.第一句act是名词作宾语
第二句是过去分词figured作宾补
4And down will come baby, cradle and all.这句话中down是副词 作状语
这是倒装句=baby will come down
that's what's got you thinking,isn't it?这句话是反义疑问句
对主句反问。
5in后面跟一段时间 表示在一段时间之后 如果谓语有情态动词可以翻译成一段时间之内
6You've got yourself to think about，too.这里have got=have
7That's the way I look at it.这句话the way后面是定语从句
有三种表达方法That's the way （that/in which /不填）I look at it.
7My career as a fashion designer and my career as a mother.这里as a...是介词短语作后置定语
8I never really thought about being a mother as a career.I guess you do have two career opportunities and a decision to make.
as a career在句中作定语修饰 a mother。
to make是动词不定式作定语
因为其逻辑主语是句子主语you,故用主动形式，与所修饰词是动宾关系
再如give me something to eat.
9I'm all mixed up.这里的all是状语 修饰系表结构'm mixed up

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