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individuals accept themselves more fully,they often become more accepting of
others.This is the opposite of self-alienation,which occurs when we fail to
acknowledge or accept certain aspects of ourselves.We then feel these
qualities are foreign to us and we project them onto others,whom we then
dislike.For example,the man who,while denying his own dependency needs,
appears to be strong and self-sufficient may feel contempt for men who allow
themselves to be taken care of when weak or ill.As you can see,personal
growth may be unsettling at times.It involves moving away from some of the
familiar self-images acquired during our formative years.And it involves
seeing yourself in new ways,especially as a more self-directed person.Because
each of us has different values and goals there is no detailed guide to assure
us that we are doing the right thing.Nevertheless,understanding the general pattern
of growth,as prescribed by Rogers,may be helpful.And remember,“the good
life is a process,not a state of being.It is a direction,not a destination”
(Rogers,1961,p.186)

　　当个人更加充分地接受自我的时候,他们也会更加容易接纳别人.这和当我们没能认可和接受某一面的自己的自我异化是对立的.我们然后就会觉得这些品质对我们来说是很陌生的,也把这些东西影射在我们不喜欢的人的身上.比如说,在否认自己需要依赖别人的同时,一个表面上看来很强大很自信的人也许会蔑视那些虚弱或者生病时候允许自己被照顾的人.正如你所见,个人成长有时候会比较混乱.这涉及到远离一些在成长时期形成的熟悉的自我形象,也涉及到以新的方式来看待自我,尤其是作为一个更加自主的人.由于我们每个人都有不同的价值观和追求,所以也没有什么指导能保证我们正在做对的事情.然而,正如罗杰斯所说的那样,了解整个成长模式也许会帮你一点忙.还有,要谨记：生命是一个过程,不是一种状态.这是一个方向,而不是一个目的地.
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