I do not understand why some parents make their kids help with housework and chores at home.kids

I do not understand why some parents make their kids help with housework and chores at home.kids these days already have enough stress from school.they do not have time to study and do housework，too.Housework is a waste of their time .Could we just let them do their job as students？They should spend their time on schoolwork in order to get good graes and get into a good university.Also，when they get older，they will have to do housework so there is no need for them to do it now. It is the parenrs'job to provide a clean and comfortable environment at home for their children .And anyway，I think doing chores is not so diffcult.I do not mind doing them.

I think it is important for children to learn how to do chores and help their parents with housework.It is not enough to just get good grades at school.Children these days depend on their parents too much.They are always asking “Could you get this for me?” or “Could you help me with that?" Doing chores helps to develop children’s independence and teaches them how to look after themselves.It also helps them to understand the idea of fairness.Since they live in one house with their parents,they should know that everyone should do their part in keeping it clean and tidy Our neighbors’ son into a good college but during his first year,he had no idea how to take care of himself.As a result,he often fell ill and his grades dropped .The earlier kids learn to be independent,the better it is for their future.

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我不明白为什么有些家长会让孩子做家务或家中的一些零活。如今的孩子在学校中的压力已经足够大了，他们没时间在学习之余还做家务。做家务是在浪费他们的时间。难道我们就不能仅仅让他们承担好作为学生（的责任）就好了吗？他们应该花时间在学校布置的任务上，这是为了得到更好的成绩并且考入一个好大学。而且，当他们长大了，他们肯定是要做家务的，所以没必要让他们现在就做家务。作为家长，给孩子提供一个整洁舒服的家庭环境是他们的职责。不管怎么说，我认为做家务（干零活）并不很难。我根本不需费心去做。
我认为让孩子学会如何做家务（做零碎家务），并且帮助家长做家务是很重要的。仅仅在学校取得好成绩是远远不够的。如今的孩子太依赖他们的父母了。他们总在问“可以帮我那这个吗？”或者“可以帮帮我那个吗？”做家务帮助孩子提高他们的独立性并且，并且这可以教会他们如何照顾他们自己。（做家务）同样帮助他们理解什么是公平。自从他们与父母共处同一屋檐下，他们（指孩子）就应该明白家庭中的每一分子都应该为报纸家庭的干净整洁出自己的一份力。我们邻居的儿子考上了一所很好的大学（注：原句此处有语病，缺少成分，因此仅以理解的意思翻译），但是在大一的时候，他完全不知道怎么照顾自己。正因如此，他经常生病，并且成绩也有所下降。孩子越早学会独立，对他的未来也越有利。
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