Sometimes I have to not do something that

Sometimes I have to not do something that
Sometimes I have to not do something that sounds really appealing.but it just doesn't work for my family,so …you can＇t have it all,you know,you can＇t.

翻译：“有时候我不得不不做一些听起来很有吸引力.但它只是不为我的家庭工作,所以…你不能拥有一切,你知道,你不能.”
再问： “但它只是不为我的家庭工作”什么意思
再答： 就是它还给别的人工作！