To me,staying with my lover is best和To me,to stay with my lo

To me,staying with my lover is best和To me,to stay with my lover is best有什么区别,请详细的教我

就是动名词和不定式的区别嘛!其实在语义上没什么区别的.
不定式和动名词作主语的区别
(1)动名词作主语通常表示抽象动作；而不定式作主语表示具体动作.
例如：Smoking is prohibited(禁止)here.这里禁止抽烟.(抽象)
It is not very good for you to smoke so much.你抽这么多烟对你身体很不好.(具体)
(2)动名词作主语时,通常用以表示一件已知的事或经验.
不定式短语通常用来表示一件未完成的事或目的.
例如：Climbing mountains is interesting.爬山很有趣.(经验)
Driving a car during the rush hour is tiring.在高峰时刻开车令人厌烦.(经验)