根据材料，回答问题。TheFirstFourMinuteWhendopeopledecidewhetherornottheywanttobecomef

共享题干题根据材料，回答问题。 The First Four Minute When do people decide whether or not they want to become friends? During their first four minutes together, according to a book by Dr. Leonard Zunin. In his book, Contact: The first four minutes, he offers this advice to anyone(46): "Every time you meet someone in a social situation, give him your undivided attention for four minutes. A lot of people's whole lives would change if they did just that. " You may have noticed that the average person does not give his undivided attention to someone he has just met. He keeps looking over the other person's shoulder, as if(47). If anyone has ever done this to you, you probably did not like him very much.When we are introduced to new people, the author suggests, we should try to appear riendly and self-confident. In general, he says, "People like people who like themselves. " On the other hand, we should not make the other person think we are too sure of ourselves.It is important to appear interested and sympathetic, realizing that the other person has his own needs, fears, and hopes.Hearing such advice, one might say, "But I'm not a friendly, self-confident person. That's not my nature. It would be dishonest for me to act that way".In reply, Dr. Zunin would claim that a little practice can help us (48) We can become accustomed to any changes we choose to make in our personality. "It is like getting used to a new car. It may be unfamiliar at first, but it goes much better than the old one. "But isn't it dishonest to give the appearance of friendly self-'confidence when we don't actually feel that way? Perhaps, but according to Dr. Zunin, "total honesty" is not always good for social relationships, especially during the first few minutes of contact. There is a time for everything, and a certain amount of play-acting may be best for the first few minutes of contact with a stranger. That is not the time to complain about one's health or to mention faults one finds in other people. It is not the time to tell the whole truth about one's opinions and mpressions.Much of (49) also applies to relationships with family members and friends. For a husband and wife or a parent and child, problems often arise during their first four minutes together after they have been apart. Dr. Zunin suggests that these first few minutes together be treated with care. If there are unpleasant matters to be discussed, they should be dealt with later.The author says that interpersonal relations should be taught as a required course in every school, along with reading, writing, and mathematics. In his opinion, success in life depends mainly on _(50). That is at least as important as how much we know.1.[不定向选择题]请在第__(49)__处填上正确答案。A.feel comfortable about changing our social habit B.what has been said about stranger C.how we get along with other people D.interested in starting new friendshipE.hoping to find someone more interesting in another part of the roomF.who has made friends with everyoneABCDEF确定 2.[不定向选择题]请在第__(47)__处填上正确答案。A.feel comfortable about changing our social habit B.what has been said about stranger C.how we get along with other people D.interested in starting new friendshipE.hoping to find someone more interesting in another part of the roomF.who has made friends with everyoneABCDEF确定

1.参考答案：B
参考解析：空白处的句子说的是“许多的_____?也适用于我们同家人和朋友的关系”，从“als0”可以判断是承前说的，因而得看上一段说了什么，分析之后我们知道上一段讲的与stranger有关，所以空白处填入的内容承前与stranger相关，所以选项B“有关陌生人的一些说法”为正确答案。?
2.参考答案：E
参考解析：空白处的句子说的是“他一直不停地看着另外一个人的肩膀，好像_____”，所以空白处填入的内容应该是他这样做的目的，因此选项E“希望找到房间中更有趣的人”为正确答案。?3.[不定向选择题]请在第__(48)__处填上正确答案。A.feel comfortable about changing our social habit B.what has been said about stranger C.how we get along with other people D.interested in starting new friendshipE.hoping to find someone more interesting in another part of the roomF.who has made friends with everyoneABCDEF确定

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