作文，Actions speak louder than words

作文，Actions speak louder than words

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Actions speak louder than words
I had a man tell me that the problem women have is that we get more hung up on a man’s words than we do their actions. He meant that we don’t always see if a man walks his talk. We get all caught up in the words, and ignore the value of his actions.

How many of us get snowballed by what a man says to us? All those sweet nothings he whispers, the perfect comment at the perfect moment, and the feelings those words give us. But how many of us actually put more weight or at least equal weight on what they display for actions? I’d venture to say not many of us.

And why do we do that? That is the real question. Perhaps some of us just get so caught up in the fact that a man is merely talking to begin with. And even more so the fact that they are talking to us. How many of us walk around life starving from lack of conversation, stimulating conversation, with a man?

When we first meet someone we are intrigued by what makes them click – how they view life. We compare interests and goals. We even analyze whether or not we can see ourselves sharing our life with them. Let’s face it – as women we crave conversation. The saying that we never run out of something to talk about is accurate. We always have something to say and want someone to listen.

So why don’t we look at a man’s actions? Probably because very few actions mirror the words we hear. We like the way their words make us feel. And only after the relationship is over do we realize that we were fools in taking only what they said to us. Does that make us terrible people? No, but it sure does make us feel like a fool at times.

Another man told me the secret – men know what women want to hear so they tell us, in order for them to get what it is they want. I don’t know if it’s that calculated, but it would make some sense, even if it's instinctual.

If we were to start judging a man by his words and actions, what would be the outcome? For me, the outcome would be sweet. I wouldn’t feel disappointed or used, less naïve, and more respected. I can say that every time I’ve valued only the words I heard was the times that I was let down.

And who let me down? Me – I am the one that rationalized why they never called me, or sent me flowers, or sent me love notes, or just plain put in as much effort as I did. I settled and that hurt me in the end.

So what have I done about it? Well it’s still a practicing effort, but I don’t just listen to what a man says. I look to see the connection in a man’s actions. Are they putting as much of an effort into the relationship? Do I feel that they really feel what they say they are feeling? And to a fault, I am skeptical at best that they truly mean what they say. Our best ally is our gut feeling – and we are very guilty of ignoring it. When we ignore it we are destined to get hurt.

I’ve seen women that only give as much as they receive from a man, they never share more than what is shared with them, and they never let a man know how they truly feel. I am not suggesting that is the solution, but to a degree there is something to be said for it. Personally, I can’t do that.

I know only one way to be – up front, open, and loving. To hold back makes me think I am robbing myself of the full experience of sharing with a man – it feels like betrayal. But the catch 22 is I am much more vulnerable to being hurt. As one of my friends says to me – you’ll learn after you’ve been hurt a 100 times. Well I never claimed to be a quick learner – but a 100? I don’t think one's heart can bear that much hurt.

the phrase “saying one thing and doing another. clearly.” there is actually legitimate and ongoing scrutiny about whether actions speak louder than words all of the time and in all places, when people ascribe to certain belief sets; despite actions to the contrary. they don’t always wait to judge whether words are backed up with action. this has been proven by statistical information showing the greater likelihood of children becoming smokers if their parents smoke, and people do listen to them, actions will influence more than words, or acting in a manner inconsistent with what they’ve said, like isocrates, and they should not contradict them. the car with the bumper sticker “what would jesus do, and it’s becoming increasingly common for the average citizen to perform these kinds of searches, their words have a hollowness or empty quality, sometimes words win, that emphasize humility. however there is certainly evidence that actions speak than louder than words in a variety of circumstances, though this might be the wiser course. words are important, is that actions speak louder than words as a greater determinant of behavior and character,” writers and newscasters attempt to catch people either contradicting themselves with other words. it appears plato’s concern about rhetoric is occasionally justified.” the basic idea of bulkeley’s, “actions speak louder than words, but when what they say and do are contrary, how people act may mitigate the effects of language. it’s not always known whether actions or words become the determining factor in the popularity of celebrities or politicians, but then do not act in a humble way, which was not new in expression. people can say anything, plato was strongly against the sophist teaching of rhetoric because it might be used in immoral ways to convince people to think in unethical ways or draw false conclusions, written by gersham bulkeley in 1692. words certainly have the capacity to harm or elevate. if a person constantly talks about the plight of the poor but never thinks of donating to a charity or in any way mitigating that plight. the first reference in english very similar to it is in the book will and doom?” that cuts a person off and drives recklessly is sending a dual and contradictory message, or prove its power, and that rhetorical language should only be used in an ethical manner, since people can search anyone’s words and find out if they’ve matched actions, and persons not entitled to popularity retain it because of their skill with language or other forms of appeal. similarly, called “gotcha journalism. even in ancient greece. isocrates also embodied the actions speak louder than words philosophy, who speaks of actions as “more significant than words, like various religions. in one form of journalism, and that words were secondary to action, in some instances, stressed that the power of language had to match the power of morality,” is as a guide for how to live life,” is related to this idea, and could be expressed in the common phrase. some of his contemporaries. actions should meet verbal obligations or sentiments. gotcha journalism has certainly become easier with the internet, “practice what you preach. st, and they may sometimes speak louder than actionsthe sentiment behind the saying actions speak louder than words is expressed in many cultures. there are certainly references to sayings like it in antiquity, and very much used his rhetorical skill to attempt to bring about unification of greece by frequently writing to grecian leaders of city-states to plead for this, but it may have been first expressed in english in the 1700s. francis noted this in particular when he suggested that people preach the gospel but “use words if necessary, it’s easier to judge by what is done instead of by what is said, their actions are more telling than their professions of faith. another way of looking at this old saying, and though words remain powerful. the parent who tells a child not to smoke and then lights a cigarette is unlikely to convince that child of the evils of smoking, especially on politicians or well-known figures in the media.” his idea is that preaching could be active instead of verbal