Do you prefer a big family or a small family?

Do you prefer a big family or a small family?
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Do you prefer a big family or a small family?
if i have a big family but no one living together with me,or they don't like me at all,my birth was not they expected,sounds poor.
i just prefer a family who care about me,have breakfast together in the morning everyday every morning.
what constitutes a big family exactly?some have defined it as any family with more than the socially acceptable number of children,or any other ways.as a mother,i won't have more than 2 children course i don't like to count my children when i'm out in public,worry about if any of them may lost.big family,sounds hard to manage~