英语翻译A high school history teacher once told us,If you make

英语翻译
A high school history teacher once told us,If you make one close friend in school,you will be most fortunate.A true friend is someone who stays with you for life .Experience teaches that he was right Good friendship is just not easily formed.
It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for true friendship to develop.However,there can be no disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want.
To most of us,friendships are considered very important,but we need to have clear in our minds the kinds of friendship we want Are they to be close or kept at arm’s length?Do we want share ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface?For some people,many friendships on the surface are.Quite enough-and that's all right.But at some point we need to make sure that our expectations.the same as our friends' expectations.The sharing of personal experience in cluding our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships.But it must be undertaken slowly and carried on only if there are signs of interest and action in return.
What are some of the difficulties ship?The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon Deep relationships _51_time.Another major difficulty is the selfishness to think one possesses the other,including his time and attention.Similarly,friendships require actions in return.In other words,you must give as much as you take.Finally there is a question of taking care of Unless you spend reasonable time together,talking on the phone,writing letters,doing things together,friendships will die away.

一个高中的历史老师曾经告诉过我们：“如果你在学校里交了一个亲密的朋友,你将会最幸运一个真的朋友是会陪伴你一生的”.经验教会我们他是对的.好的友谊不是轻易结交的.
可能我们我们不会单纯地待在一个地方等到友谊发展.但是毫无疑问,我们需要仔细想想我们到底需要怎样的友谊.
对于我们大多数人来说,友谊杯看得很重要,但是我们必须清楚地知道我们需要什么样的友谊.对他们是亲密无间还是保持一定距离?我们是想要分享我们的真实想法还是只是浅层次地来往?对于一些人来说,很多浅层次的友谊就足够了.这个没有问题.但是在某些方面,我们必须确定我们的想法和朋友一致.分享我们的眼泪和噩梦是加深友谊的很有效的方法.但是必须要慢慢地进展,必须在朋友显示出兴趣给出回应的时候进行.
关于困难的关系呢?最主要的是期望过多过快地加深友谊.另一个主要的困难在于自私不愿为别人考虑,包括时间和关注点.同样地,友谊需要回应.换句话说,你必须付出得和你得到的一样多.最后,又一个问题,除非你们一起消磨时间,在电话里交谈,写信,在一起做事,否则友谊将会消失.