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关于大学生到底是分数重要还是能力重要的作文,要英语

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关于大学生到底是分数重要还是能力重要的作文,要英语
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英语在最下面。

我说几个点:
1.大学里面的人际关系,相比于学习而言,一点儿都不重要;
2.人际关系的基础在于价值的潜在交换,一个没有价值的人,不要谈人际关系;
3.学习不只是学习专业知识,学而不思的人,也不要谈什么价值。

稍微解释一下:
1.大学里面的人际关系,相比于学习而言,一点儿都不重要
我大学里面从来没有参加过什么社团,什么学生会,就我个人而言,把时间花费在这上面,还不如多读几本书。
大学开始的时候,我也很迷茫,我也觉得大学就是来玩儿的,通过玩儿,通过参加各种协会,我可以认识许多非常厉害的人,这样我也就扩展了我的人脉。

仔细看看我上面这句话的逻辑,有没有觉得十分可笑?
想通过玩儿,想通过和别人扯淡,去建立什么人脉?这样建立起来的人脉,是什么人脉?

还有一些人想通过进入某些大学社团,锻炼所谓的人际交往能力,管理能力,组织协调能力。
扯淡吧,中国大学里面那些组织,成员大多都十分幼稚,组织也十分松散,组织管理这些人,特别浪费时间。

当然,我没有说参加社团一无是处,至少你可以找点儿乐子,外带认识妹子。
只是如果要把参加社团和学习来做个比较,那它屁都不是。
等你毕业了,你把你的社团经历写进你的简历,HR看都不会看一眼,只会觉得是浪费纸张。

醒醒吧!大学生!

2.人际关系的基础在于价值的潜在交换,一个没有价值的人,不要谈人际关系
想要建立人脉,想要结交厉害的朋友?
那你得先把自己收拾好,让自己变得厉害。
等你厉害了,等你成为大牛了,自然有志趣相投的人主动找上门来和你做朋友。

为什么?一方面,如标题所言,人际交往的本质在于价值的潜在交换,一个人越有价值,掌握的资源越多,人际交往,自然就是通畅的。
当然,我这里探讨的,是你至少在性格上是个普通人,性格要是特别坏,你越牛逼,树敌越多。

另一方面,为什么志趣相投的人都会主动跑来找你?
因为在这个世界上,牛逼的人都是很寂寞的!
牛逼的人都想跟牛逼的人做朋友,你牛逼了,别人自然会靠过来的。

人脉这个词,本来就是功利的,我并不喜欢。
但是既然要谈,就必须明确:人脉的质量重于数量,认识一百个傻逼远不如认识一个大牛。

3.学习不只是学习专业知识,学而不思的人,也不要谈什么价值
怎么成为一个有价值的人?
那就是学习!

大学给你提供了最好的学习环境,比如图书馆,比如厉害的老师,几乎没有什么物质上的忧虑。

但是,学习不只是把专业知识学好就行了!
我见过好多人,在大学学习完全是高中那一套,虽然学得很好,每年都拿奖学金,但是他们根本就不喜欢自己学的东西,根本从来就没有哪怕深入思考一点点关于他们所学的知识。

他们的学习完全是被动的。

人真的不能活得跟个计算机一样,只是一个知识的接收器。
要想成为一个有价值的人,就必须要在学习的同时,勤于思考,勤于总结。
当然,我也知道,很多大学生,上大学前,完全不知道自己要学什么,导致进了大学,对自己的专业课,完全没有兴趣,一上课就昏昏欲睡,完全学不进去。(说实话,大学里面的老师的授课,学生所用的教材,大多都太差,不能全怪学生。)
那该怎么办呢?

找到你的兴趣点,然后致力于去学习就行了。

真的,不要怕,不要以为你不是那个专业的,你就比不过人家。
没这回事!

中国大多数大学生,都是没有什么人生计划的,都是没有理想的,都是没有学习的兴趣的。
你在你感兴趣的领域,好好用心学几年,毕业的时候,秒杀那些专业的学生,完全不是问题!

最后,为了让一些人醒一醒,言辞比较激烈,不好意思。

I say a few points:
1 interpersonal relationships in the University, compared to learning, a little is not important;
2 interpersonal relationship is based on the value of the potential exchange, a person of no value, do not talk about interpersonal relationships;
3 learning is not just learning professional knowledge, learning without thinking of the people, also do not talk about the value of.
Explain a little:
1 interpersonal relationships in the University, compared to learning, a little is not important
I have never participated in the University of what society, what students will, I personally, the time spent on the above, it is better to read a few books.
When the University began, I also very confused, I think the university is to play, through play, by participating in various associations, I can know a lot of very powerful people, so I also expanded my contacts.
Take a closer look at the logic of this sentence above me, there is no feeling very ridiculous?
Want to play, and others want to nonsense, to establish what contacts? So built up a network of contacts, what is the network?
There are some people who want to enter some of the University associations, exercise the so-called interpersonal skills, management ability, organization and coordination ability.
Talk, Chinese university inside those organizations, most of the members are very naive, organizations are very loose, the organization and management of these people, especially a waste of time.
Of course, I did not say you can at least take part in community Nothing is right., have fun, and understanding woman.
Just if you want to participate in the community and learn to make a comparison, it is not a fart.
When you graduate, you put your community experience to write your resume, HR will not look at a glance, only think it is a waste of paper.
Wake up! College student!
2 interpersonal relationship is based on the value of the potential exchange, a person of no value, do not talk about interpersonal relationships
Want to build connections, want to make good friends?
Then you have to put yourself up, and get yourself a good.
You good, you become a big bull, with like-minded people take the initiative to come to make friends with you.
Why? On the one hand, as the title of the words, the essence of interpersonal communication lies in the value of the potential exchange, the more valuable a person, the more resources, interpersonal communication, natural is smooth.
Of course, I explored here, you are at least in character is an ordinary person, especially if the bad character, the more you Niubi, more enemies.
On the other hand, why like-minded people will take the initiative to find you?
Because in this world, the people are very lonely!
Force people want to make friends with the cow force, you force the cattle, others will come naturally.
Contacts of the word, is originally utilitarian, I do not like.
But since we're talking about, it must be clear: the network quality is more important than the number of one hundred is far better than a big idiot.
3 learning is not just learning professional knowledge, learning without thinking of the people, also do not talk about the value of
How to become a man of value?
That is learning!
University provides you with the best learning environment, such as libraries, such as powerful teachers, there is little material on the worries.
However, learning is not just to learn professional knowledge on the line!
I have seen a lot of people studying in college is a high school that, although learn very well, but they all get scholarship every year, do not love their own thing to learn, never said even thinking a little bit about what they learn.
Their study is completely passive.
People really can not live like a computer, but a knowledge of the receiver.
If you want to become a man of value, it must be in learning at the same time, diligent in thinking, diligent summary.
Of course, I also know that many college students, the University before, don't know what you need to learn, to go to university, for their professional course, no interest, a class cannot learn completely be sleepy straws. To tell the truth, the university teachers in the teaching, the students used the teaching materials, most of them are too poor, not all of the students.
What should I do then?
Find your point of interest, and then work on learning.
Really, do not be afraid, do not think that you are not the professional, you are better than others.
No such thing.
Most of the Chinese college students, there is no life plan, are not ideal, there is no interest in learning.
Are you interested in your field, make good use of psychology in recent years, the time of graduation, the students of seckill, completely is not a problem!
Finally, in order to make some people wake up, the words are more intense, I'm sorry.
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