Dear Michelle, Why can't my daughter manage her life better? She is 17 and an honor studen

Dear Michelle,
Why can't my daughter manage her life better? She is 17 and an honor student, but she seems to be wasting her life away with a boyfriend who is holding her back.
He consumes every waking minute of her precious time and smooth-talks her as well.
His goal is to get her to agree to go to the college of his choice, not her choice, and because his grades are lower, his choice will be limited.
I feel like I want to rescue her, but she pushes me away and shuts me out. She has only brought us pride and joy; and now this! Help!
A worried mother
Dear Mother of a 17-year-old Girl,
Hmmmmm. What's the matter with kids today? Remember that song from Bye Bye Birdie?
Well if you do not, let me fill you in about teenagers and their life-management skills. Do not expect too much too soon because at the ripe age of 17, life-management is not within their reach, nor should it be.
Life experience creates both the conditions and the skills for management, and if management went before experience, there would be little of it.
Your daughter is an honor student for good reasons. She is smart, studies with intelligence and you have given her good values.
When the time comes for her to apply for college, and she visits the ones that are specifically designed for students at the top of their grade, she will most likely break away from her boyfriend's influence.
It is rare for an honor student to change the path of their academic career for puppy love. That being said, there might be some adolescent wisdom in her behavior after all.
Perhaps she is choosing to worry you, her parents, for unconscious reasons. Being such a good girl and being a steady source of joy might have become a bit too much for her.
Let your daughter have her own private moment of 11th grade rebellion. She deserves a break from perfection.
Michelle
【小题1】From the mother's letter we can learn that her daughter .A．is being fooled by the boyB．has fallen behind in her studiesC．doesn't talk much with her motherD．has chosen which college to attend【小题2】According to Michelle, 17-year-old teenagers .A．are too young to manage their lifeB．are old enough to live their own lifeC．should have management before experienceD．have reached the age of an adult【小题3】The underlined word puppy-love refer to .A．false loveB．foolish loveC．pure loveD．adolescent love【小题4】Michelle seems to believe that the daughter will finally .A．come up with the right decisionB．follow her boyfriend's adviceC．worry her parents for unconscious reasonsD．influence her boyfriend's behavior【小题5】The best title for the passage would be .A．College of kids' own choiceB．How can I help my girl?C．How to manage teenagers' life? D．A 17-year-old girl and her motherC

(答案→)C 解析：文章是一个担心的妈妈写给Michelle的信，说明她女儿出现的早恋的问题并有可能影响大学的选择，Michelle帮妈妈分析了情况也给出了自己的建议。【小题1】细节题：从第一段的句子：I feel like I want to rescue her, but she pushes me away and shuts me out.可知可以看出妈妈想救女儿，但是女儿把妈妈排斥在外，不怎么和她说话，选C【小题2】细节题：从Michelle回信的第二段的句子：Do not expect too much too soon because at the ripe age of 17, life-management is not within their reach, nor should it be.可知他认为现在的17岁的年轻人不会处理自己的生活，选A【小题3】猜词题：从妈妈的来信中说女儿和一个男孩恋爱的事情，和后面的句子：there might be some adolescent wisdom in her behavior after all.可知puppy-love指的是adolescent love早恋，选D【小题4】细节题;从回信的第五段的内容：When the time comes for her to apply for college, and she visits the ones that are specifically designed for students at the top of their grade, she will most likely break away from her boyfriend's influence. 可知Michelle认为这个女儿会做出正确的决定的，选A【小题5】主旨题：文章是一个担心的妈妈写给Michelle的信，说明她女儿的问题，从最后一句话She has only brought us pride and joy; and now this! Help!可知妈妈是想征求意见怎么帮助自己的女儿。选B

这个问题我还想问问老师呢